The old love is long gone, and now he’s with you. But neither woman is safe from his former appearance on the horizon and some former did not even think to disappear. What type of you got, and what you can expect from them.
Does it really matter how it was and who he was, if everything in the past? – Said self-confident woman. And the reason – love boat can break not only about life but also in a collision with an iceberg, on the top of his ex.
1 The one that understands
Oh, she’s so good he knows and understands. Moreover, she understands you – of course you are jealous, because their love affair with “bunny” (yes, that’s what she did still calls occasionally stumbling on the “nice cat” or “PUSIC”) will remain in her memory forever . She wish you happiness, but it sure will take a couple of suggestions or three boards, not wondering whether they should have you. “Be careful with spices! He has again escalated gastritis, “or even” Make him change these horrible semeyniki at a decent boxer. ” Sometimes it can behave as if your novel – it’s just not very funny joke, and he soon returned to her.
What to do: The only true method of communication with this type of ex-girlfriends – it’s quiet. Not irritated, listen to what she wants you to hear, smile, nod and immediately forget what was said, as a nightmare. The main thing – never call it a favorite as it is. Taboo on “Zaichikov”, “PUSIC” and other lapochek.
2 Mourning separation
Enough to look into her eyes, to understand – she hates you. You ignore it, but it converged light wedge. Any of their conversation (even the most innocuous) is accompanied by a flood of tears, called on him to repent of their deeds, and return. After this conversation, he fear the, and his mood sour. As a rule, it has the opposite – increasing – the day is lived not in vain!
What to do: Help him put the bullet in their relationship – to convince him that he would finally have to say it in plain text that is between them all over. And she can cry as much as – it still does not change. If the ex-girlfriend can not stop and continues to behave as before, then talk to her and tell yourself to find a therapist to help her solve the problem.
3 The one that has left itself
Typically, to know it can happen only remotely – because she lives in another place, or do not wish to communicate with him. But the traces of her presence can still be found in his house, and SMS – in his mobile phone. He seemed to glow when he begins to talk about what it is clever and beautiful.
What to do: That the former – the worst thing that can happen in your relationship. If you frankly – that the problem is your man, not her. Most likely, it was the initiator of the gap, but he still has not forgotten her. Treat your favorite explanatory conversation: send it to talk to her, a newspaper Wave of job openings at the point where it is now, and ask for leave. If you decide to act, go for it, or leave – you were just a means to prove to her (never mind that). Remain – most likely, he likes the process of suffering. In this case, decide for yourself whether you need a depressive treasure.
4 bosom friend
They’ve been together a hundred years ago, and since then had to leave, and then how to make friends. She – a wonderful, sweet, charming, at least at first glance.Take a closer look – you have enough minutes to figure out which of you two more important to him.
What to do: Do not rush just jealous. The fact that he is now with you, in this case – the weighty evidence that between them there is nothing. Not necessarily with her priyatelstvovat (although it is not forbidden), but do not expose it to him in an unfavorable light. If you think that the ex-girlfriend too much in his life, begin to pursue an aggressive policy, but very carefully. Step by step towards its goal – the number of memories that make you dearer and nearer, should increase.